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10 Things You Really Need to Know before you can be Succeeful In your Marriage

10 Things You Really Need to Know before you can be Succeeful In your Marriage



• Respect is more important than love. It's not that love is not important. But there are many instances where couples choose to stay together even though love has long since died. Sometimes, to support their children up to their growth, or to secure financial security. On the contrary, once you lose your partner's respect, you will not be able to coexist.


You can restart the lost love, but the lack of respect is hard to repair. You must be sincere.


• Loving the Eyes: If you have decided to fall in love with the appearance, make sure to fall for your eyes, as they never age. The handsome guy you know today, in a few years, will have a muffin-top belly and slimming hair and the amazing beauty you love now will have a wrinkled face and a sagging posture. Remember, the eyes are the window of the soul. You will see the passion, joy and desire of your partner, no matter their age.


• Cross the minefields together: when your partner is progressing in a difficult time in her career or if you are experiencing health problems, or even if you are crazy. This is what I call the minefield of your conjugal life. You have to go through it together. If you decide to wait for him on the other side of the minefield and let them cross by themselves, you will definitely lose them. If they do not get to the other side, you've lost them. If they did it on their own without your support ... You also lost them.


• You will not be the same person in 10 years from now: people change all the time. You took the lead on the heels for that person. Years of continual crushing under the wheels of professional life, marathon after children and drowning in daily household chores will make your partner's personality almost unrecognizable. They may become more nervous, less sensitive, more aggressive or less indulgent. They certainly will not be the same person. And you must accept the new version on your part and your partner, otherwise your life will be unbearable.


• Work as a team: you have found that after a few years you have changed. Now more than ever, you have to work as a team. It is so difficult to have a ship with two captains. Sometimes, let her master and let her drive sometimes. At the end of the day, you want to arrive safely on the other side.


• Feed your privacy: sex is like food and drink. Everyone knows that. But some people think that everyone can survive the same amount of food. For some people, the children's meal is more than enough. But some will not feel full before devouring a full family meal. Same with sex. Do not expect your partner to have the same appetite as you. If a partner was hungry that could lead to infidelity. You must communicate your feeling, your needs and your worries, otherwise you will be stuck in an ox donkey relationship.


• Be friends: one day, in many years, when the cyclone of emotion, intimacy, growing children and work routines, settle down, you will watch your wedding path and reflect. You will have plenty of time to spend together. If the hours passed as eternity and you have nothing to say, then you have not been friends all your life. Friendship is the glue that collaborates together. All the way to the end.


• Do not take things as guarantees: "Happily ever after" is an elusive statement. There are ups and downs in any marriage. Sometimes you feel married with the perfect partner and sometimes you perceive them as partners of hell. It is always a work in progress. So, celebrate the right time and be prepared for difficulties.


• Do not compare yourself: the following scenario can happen to you after a few years of marriage: you dine with your partner with another couple that resembles Romeo and Juliet of modern times. They pass passionately and touch the hands as if it were their first time. She explains her man as the perfect man. And he speaks of her as a trophy wife. At your side of the table: Sigh ... look ... why can not my partner be like that? Be careful, what you saw could be a show. Like the one you watch in the movies. He had the start and end time. Some people act well in public.

• Patience ... Patience ... and more Patience: When facing obstacles, remember that time solves all problems. So, breathe deeply ... should I make myself clearer?


• Respect is more important than love. It's not that love is not important. But there are many instances where couples choose to stay together even though love has long since died. Sometimes, to support their children up to their growth, or to secure financial security. On the contrary, once you lose your partner's respect, you will not be able to coexist.


You can restart the lost love, but the lack of respect is hard to repair. You must be sincere.


• Loving the Eyes: If you have decided to fall in love with the appearance, make sure to fall for your eyes, as they never age. The handsome guy you know today, in a few years, will have a muffin-top belly and slimming hair and the amazing beauty you love now will have a wrinkled face and a sagging posture. Remember, the eyes are the window of the soul. You will see the passion, joy and desire of your partner, no matter their age.


• Cross the minefields together: when your partner is progressing in a difficult time in her career or if you are experiencing health problems, or even if you are crazy. This is what I call the minefield of your conjugal life. You have to go through it together. If you decide to wait for him on the other side of the minefield and let them cross by themselves, you will definitely lose them. If they do not get to the other side, you've lost them. If they did it on their own without your support ... You also lost them.


• You will not be the same person in 10 years from now: people change all the time. You took the lead on the heels for that person. Years of continual crushing under the wheels of professional life, marathon after children and drowning in daily household chores will make your partner's personality almost unrecognizable. They may become more nervous, less sensitive, more aggressive or less indulgent. They certainly will not be the same person. And you must accept the new version on your part and your partner, otherwise your life will be unbearable.


• Work as a team: you have found that after a few years you have changed. Now more than ever, you have to work as a team. It is so difficult to have a ship with two captains. Sometimes, let her master and let her drive sometimes. At the end of the day, you want to arrive safely on the other side.


• Feed your privacy: sex is like food and drink. Everyone knows that. But some people think that everyone can survive the same amount of food. For some people, the children's meal is more than enough. But some will not feel full before devouring a full family meal. Same with sex. Do not expect your partner to have the same appetite as you. If a partner was hungry that could lead to infidelity. You must communicate your feeling, your needs and your worries, otherwise you will be stuck in an ox donkey relationship.


• Be friends: one day, in many years, when the cyclone of emotion, intimacy, growing children and work routines, settle down, you will watch your wedding path and reflect. You will have plenty of time to spend together. If the hours passed as eternity and you have nothing to say, then you have not been friends all your life. Friendship is the glue that collaborates together. All the way to the end.


• Do not take things as guarantees: "Happily ever after" is an elusive statement. There are ups and downs in any marriage. Sometimes you feel married with the perfect partner and sometimes you perceive them as partners of hell. It is always a work in progress. So, celebrate the right time and be prepared for difficulties.


• Do not compare yourself: the following scenario can happen to you after a few years of marriage: you dine with your partner with another couple that resembles Romeo and Juliet of modern times. They pass passionately and touch the hands as if it were their first time. She explains her man as the perfect man. And he speaks of her as a trophy wife. At your side of the table: Sigh ... look ... why can not my partner be like that? Be careful, what you saw could be a show. Like the one you watch in the movies. He had the start and end time. Some people act well in public.

• Patience ... Patience ... and more Patience: When facing obstacles, remember that time solves all problems. So, breathe deeply ... should I make myself clearer?

5 Scope to stop taking things personally For Yourself

5 Scope to stop taking things personally For Yourself


Question Yourself

When you find yourself being overly and personally affected by things, you should pause, take a step back and ask yourself why. Argue with yourself if you have to, and ask yourself why on earth you are letting it get to you so much.

Change Your Beliefs

This is based on the Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), which argues that a person is not affected emotionally by what happens around them, but by their interpretation of what happened. Interpretations are formed by our beliefs, so you therefore have to work on wrong beliefs and erroneous lines of reasoning that can lead you to feel bad about things that really don’t warrant such emotions.

Get Over Yourself

It might seem a bit harsh to say, but this is the truth of what you have to do to be free of taking things personally. You need to stop being so self-conscious and stop believing that everything is about you or everything is caused by you. Learn to separate yourself, your personality and who you are in general, from events that happen to you. Keep that in mind the next time you are tempted to take things personally.

Be Too Busy To Care

Remember this – if you have time to dwell and dwell endless on what has been said or done to you, you have way too much time on your hands. Please get busy and find something productive to do that will make you better for taking out time to do it.

Don’t Drink the Poison

Even if an action or comment was directed at you or was a jab at you, it is important you learn to let it go. Don’t dwell on it and let it stir up bitterness and anger in you. If you want to confront the person(s) concerning it, make a decision and do so. If you aren’t going to confront the person, then just let it go and move on. Because the truth is even when a situation seems so personal, even if you are insulted directly, it most times has nothing to do with you. Everything is based on the opinions, agreements, judgments and even insecurities the other person has in their own mind.

Question Yourself

When you find yourself being overly and personally affected by things, you should pause, take a step back and ask yourself why. Argue with yourself if you have to, and ask yourself why on earth you are letting it get to you so much.

Change Your Beliefs

This is based on the Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), which argues that a person is not affected emotionally by what happens around them, but by their interpretation of what happened. Interpretations are formed by our beliefs, so you therefore have to work on wrong beliefs and erroneous lines of reasoning that can lead you to feel bad about things that really don’t warrant such emotions.

Get Over Yourself

It might seem a bit harsh to say, but this is the truth of what you have to do to be free of taking things personally. You need to stop being so self-conscious and stop believing that everything is about you or everything is caused by you. Learn to separate yourself, your personality and who you are in general, from events that happen to you. Keep that in mind the next time you are tempted to take things personally.

Be Too Busy To Care

Remember this – if you have time to dwell and dwell endless on what has been said or done to you, you have way too much time on your hands. Please get busy and find something productive to do that will make you better for taking out time to do it.

Don’t Drink the Poison

Even if an action or comment was directed at you or was a jab at you, it is important you learn to let it go. Don’t dwell on it and let it stir up bitterness and anger in you. If you want to confront the person(s) concerning it, make a decision and do so. If you aren’t going to confront the person, then just let it go and move on. Because the truth is even when a situation seems so personal, even if you are insulted directly, it most times has nothing to do with you. Everything is based on the opinions, agreements, judgments and even insecurities the other person has in their own mind.

Must Read: 6 Best Ways To Build Your Mental Toughness

Must Read: 6 Best Ways To Build Your Mental Toughness

Mental toughness takes many forms, some of which include resilience against attack, calmness in the face of uncertainty, persistence through pain, or focus amidst chaos. To live effectively in this world, it is important to learn to develop mental toughness.
Mental toughness takes many forms, some of which include resilience against attack, calmness in the face of uncertainty, persistence through pain, or focus amidst chaos. To live effectively in this world, it is important to learn to develop mental toughness.

Must Read: 10 Unique steps On How to Heal a Broken Heart

Must Read: 10 Unique steps On How to Heal a Broken Heart

The searing pain of a failed relationship is the greatest suffering many of us will ever experience. Now, leading hypnotist Paul McKenna and psychotherapist Dr Hugh Willbourn claim they can teach you to mend a broken heart. Using their unique 10 step method, you can remove emotional pain and feel free to enjoy life fully again - in days.
The searing pain of a failed relationship is the greatest suffering many of us will ever experience. Now, leading hypnotist Paul McKenna and psychotherapist Dr Hugh Willbourn claim they can teach you to mend a broken heart. Using their unique 10 step method, you can remove emotional pain and feel free to enjoy life fully again - in days.

Motivation: Ways You can Live A Long Life With No Regrets

Motivation: Ways You can Live A Long Life With No Regrets



First let’s outline a ‘regret policy’. A regret policy is after you take responsibility for your dreams and goals and execute them in order that you are doing not have regrets later in life.


First let’s outline a ‘regret policy’. A regret policy is after you take responsibility for your dreams and goals and execute them in order that you are doing not have regrets later in life.
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